Surrender Experiments
I’m getting ready to take a mini-sabbatical in mid-September. I call it ‘mini’ because it’s only 5-weeks and I consider a proper sabbatical to be 6-12 months. I’ll be back full of stories and new experiences from Bali and Northern Thailand in October and take a break from the newsletter (and most digital things) until
The “And”
I’ve been thinking a lot about the “AND” lately, both in my personal and professional life. This has particularly been relevant when I found myself thinking in either-or’s. A personal example of this related to a conflict with someone I am close to. Emotions ran high and it became easy for me to dig my
Learnings From My Coaching Course
A little announcement… I’m happy to share that I am a certified Integral Development Coach through an ICF-accredited organization called ThirdSpace as of June. The 12-month intensive learning journey has deepened, expanded and softened me in ways I didn’t know were possible. I am left with awe and wonder. The Messy Human Stuff I had a check-in call
Our Agency to Choose
A few months ago, I went to see a successful nutritionist who owns a private practice in New York and only takes clients on a referral basis. After we finished my health evaluation, he told me about one of his recent clients, a partner at a financial firm on Wall Street, who wears a $30K
The First 90 Days
As some of you know, alongside coaching I’m also a corporate leader at a Fortune 100 company. These two parallel paths have given me a lot of perspective on what leadership should, could and actually does look like. If I’m being honest, the reality of leadership today is incredibly complex and nuanced - and I
Managing Your Body Budget
Something that has come up a lot lately with my clients at every level of seniority has been the feeling of lacking balance in their lives. When this topic comes up, we inevitably end up talking about a concept called Body Budget (credit to Lisa Feldman Barrett, Ph.D). Essentially, your mind constantly budgets the energy in your
Questions for 2023
This post is inspired by “Foundations 1, 2, 3, 4” from Krista Tippett (Web | Apple | Spotify) The predominant narrative of this year has been noticeably marked by catastrophe, dysfunction and antagonising the “other” side - and technology has poured jet fuel on these sentiments. It’s worth acknowledging that many of these stories and experiences are
How to Set Goals That Spark Joy
If you walk into a room and ask 10 people what their personal goals are, chances are that 9 out of 10 of them will give you a To-Do List. Earning a certain amount of money, losing weight, getting promoted, buying a house, etc. When you press them on why and get to the core
Zillennials: The Leaders We Need for a Changing World
Ruth Oh Reitmeier is a Leadership Coach, Consultant and Speaker at Rice University Ruth's Top Values Empathy Transparency Creating Beauty and Order How I know Ruth Ruth leads the leadership coaching program at Rice University to help students (undergrad+) develop and hone their leadership core competency skills earlier in their careers. We first got connected over our shared grief of rising
Cross-Cultural Skills
I like thinking about the future – it’s why I worked in the Tech industry in the early years of my career and why I gravitate towards innovative projects shaping the future. It’s also why I started my coaching practice, because I believe the future of leadership shaped by Millennials and Gen Z is incredibly